Hypothethically speaking...

...if I died, I wouldn't want my loved ones to move on.
Eventually they could and will.
But not too quickly.
I want to see how much they love me through tears and emotional instability.

All that "he/she would have wanted you to be happy" doesn't cut it for me.
Sorry, future husband, but if I died spontaneously, and you decided to marry/sleep with my best friend, and receive the blessings from everyone, I will let you know now, I'm watching you.

Aren't I scary!

<3
xx